Speaking from experience, most men who say they wish they had a "gamer girlfriend" don't actually want one. I've been dumped for being better then the person I was dating and have had multiple fights with others for "not acting like the typical gamer girl and going healer" (I usually play dps or tanks) Usually when men run across one of us that isn't the guild mama bear or girlfriend/wife of an officer or guild/clan leader they don't know what to do with themselves.