You sir, want a single player game. The dynamics that annoy you so much are part of any MMO. You have to celebrate what you have and not your uniqueness. You may have been Billy bad ass in an Elder Scrolls or Assassin's Creed game, but so was everyone else, you just couldn't physically see then like you can in Destiny. In an MMO, you won't be a snowflake, so you need to create personal goals of accomplishment. Maybe 3 level 30's, maybe a certain gun you want, maybe a KD of 1.5 in pvp. Sorry a game doesn't make you feel special, welcome to being an adult.