As a gamer chick, I just found it easier to either say my mic was broken or pose as a 12 yr. old boy for games that required a lot of teamwork. It eliminated all the odd questions and distraction so I could enjoy what most are here to do...game. It was a challenge finding people to game with but now I have a good core I've been playing with for years so I don't have to deal with it anymore....but trust me, there are tons of gamer chicks out there but may just hide her gender, all for the love of the game.