PC NA Player and friend looking for a lighthearted chill clan

My best friend and I are looking for a chill clan 18+ lgbt friendly without strict rules on being active in the discord and doesn't care that we're really not the best of the best, cause goodness gracious we aren't. We can be fun though if you match our freak XD Basically we just want a chill place where we can be like "hey we need someone to help us do this thing that is apparently too hard for us to do on our own", but we don't want to/can't always commit to regular meetings or posts or anything.